Dads Helping Dads
I just read a great article about a group of fathers in Washington who have formed a support group named “Dads Supporting Dads,” specifically created for fathers of children with special needs. The group is unique because it was formed specifically for fathers, by fathers.
Click Here to see the article: Some Dads have Special Knowledge of Special Needs Kids
It’s a great idea, and it’s given me some inspiration to look for something similar in this area. I’m not sure why it’s difficult for us Dads to get out there and talk with other men in similar situations, but it is. The idea of getting together with fathers who can sympathize, and probably provide a lot of suggestions and ideas, makes a lot of sense. I often find myself complaining that my wife and I learn everything “the hard way,” maybe this is the kind of resource where I could help others, and they could help me.
Do you remember the transition in your social status when you had kids? How suddenly it was weird hanging out with your friends who haven’t experienced overflowing diapers and sleepless nights? Having a child diagnosed with special needs seems like a similar “transition,” to a lesser extent. Very few of our friends truly understand the intense life that we live, and honestly.. I don’t think that they care to hear about the difficulties of raising a special needs child. So my wife and I support each other, and try to keep the heavy talk to a minimum when we’re at social events. The idea of meeting up with Fathers who live similar lives, sounds pretty darn good.
If I’m not able to find an existing group, I think I’m going to have to start one. And who says that it needs to be boring? The gatherings could be a night at the bar, bowling alley, or even a round of golf! Just a place for people of similar circumstances and interests to get together and bounce ideas off of each other. Let’s face it, as soon as our kids were diagnosed, all of our priorities in the world changed. I find it hard to believe that there are more dedicated and passionate parents out there, than those who have special needs children, and I want to meet you.
So let’s hear it, do any of you go to support groups? I’d love to hear any experiences that you’ve had, good or bad.
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We do not have a formal support group. However, my husband goes to presentations given by a local advocate, and he meets many other families with autism at these meetings.